Tickets are on sale now for the Soroptimist’s 2nd Annual Casino Night Fundraiser, to be held Saturday, September 28, 2019 at the Vista Optimist Club. Guests may purchase tickets from any Soroptimist member or order online at http://bit.ly/2IMckR3. The dining tables, Casino Games and Texas Hold’em Tournament will all be indoors, with Bingo games and cash bar out on the Patio.
This is our club’s biggest fundraiser of the year. Proceeds will go to fund scholarship grants for local women seeking to improve their lives through education and training, and other Soroptimist projects benefiting women and girls.
HIGH ROLLER $1,500: 4 tickets, your logo on signs/poster/flyer, social media recognition, ad on Soroptimist website, 4 positions on continuous loop big screen ad rotator at event. Promo materials on table at event. Live promo (mike time) to talk about your company at event between 6-6:30 pm. ROYAL FLUSH $1,000: 3 tickets, your logo on all signs/poster/flyer, social media recogntion, ad on Soroptimist website, 3 positions on continuous loop big screen ad rotator at event. FULL HOUSE $500: 2 tickets, your logo on all signs/poster/flyer, social media recognition, ad on Soroptimist website, 2 positions on continuous loop big screen ad rotator at event. GAMBLER $250: 1 ticket, your logo on all signs/poster/fl yer, social media recognition, ad on Soroptimist website, 1 position on continuous loop big screen ad rotator at event.
Sponsoring is simple! Just 1) email Melinda at email@example.com to let her know you are interested in sponsoring (or call her at 760-975-3973); 2) mail a check payable to SI Vista/NCI to “SI Vista NCI,” P.O. Box 382, Vista, CA 92085 Attn: M. Jarrell, Casino Night.
May 20, 2019–Tears do not come easily to me, especially in public, but recently I found myself reaching for tissues at the Soroptimist Desert Coast Region Spring Conference held May 17-19, 2019 at Pala Casino Resort. At the podium was one of nine Live Your Dream Award finalists on the dais. Natalia, obviously nervous and unaccustomed to public speaking, faced an expectant audience of over 150 Soroptimists. Overcome with emotion, she was temporarily unable to speak. She recovered her composure and apologized for her tears.
“This story never gets easier to tell,” she began. Tearfully, she related how she was kidnapped at a young age from the U.S., brought by traffickers to Sinaloa, Mexico and forced into prostitution, enduring repeated beatings and abuse, and spending the next 8 years of her life there. When she tried to escape, the local Mexican police brought her back to her traffickers. “I completely lost hope,” she said. “I didn’t speak Spanish. Nobody cared about me. Nobody was looking for me,” she sobbed.
But then, she said, “An angel saved me.” That angel was her
son, to whom she gave birth in 2010. Becoming a mother brought a strength to
her that she never knew she had. “I realized I had to fight,” she said. “I
thought, if I die, who will take care of him?” She and her son were finally
rescued by the local Child Protective Services and returned to the U.S.
The good news is that Natalia is thriving and will soon graduate with an associates degree in Business from Southwestern College with plans to transfer to SDSU. Suffering from PTSD, her body still sore from repeated beatings, Natalia is determined to succeed for her son’s sake and to regain what was taken from her as a child. Grateful for the $5,000 scholarship grant Soroptimists were awarding her that day, she said the words we’ve heard from so many of our past scholarship recipients: “It’s not just about the money, the emotional support is to me more valuable,” she said.
Hers was only one of many heart-wrenching stories we heard that day. The other awardees had stories equally moving. Those of us who grew up with supportive loving families and income security cannot imagine how alone these women have felt and how much they have overcome to even get to this point.
Our Desert Coast Region, representing 36 Soroptimist clubs that range from the deserts of Imperial County to the coast of Orange and San Diego Counties, gave each of the nine Region awardees a cash award, a computer and a printer. This is in addition to the awards they each received at the local club level. One of them—Natalia, nominated by the Coronado Soroptimists—was voted to be our Region’s nominee to apply for an additional grant of $10,000 at the National level. We wish her well!
The Soroptimist Live Your Dream award program is the
signature program of all Soroptimist clubs throughout the world, along with our
other programs supporting under-served women and girls. The multiplier effect of each local club
awarding grants to one or more women each year means our collective impact is
I’ve been a member of the Vista and North County Inland Soroptimist Club for 9 years now. We all worked really hard last year, holding fundraisers to raise enough money to give three $5,000 scholarship grants to our club’s Live Your Dream awards recipients. Yes, we were a bit disappointed that our club’s chosen nominee did not advance to the Region level for additional scholarship money. But we were not surprised, because we know there are many more deserving applicants than there is money to award.
As anyone who volunteers their time and money to help a non-profit raise funds knows, we sometimes suffer from burnout. But attending the May Conference gave me a big boost, because I heard first-hand from these women that we Soroptimists are indeed making a huge difference in their lives and in the lives of their families. So I left this year’s conference re-energized and ready to work hard to raise funds for next year’s scholarship recipients. Along with all Soroptimist Clubs worldwide, our club will be busy holding fundraisers, seeking donations and support from our local communities. If you are among our past supporters, individually or on behalf of local companies like Tri City Medical Center, Modern Builders Supply, and Cosmic Solar, please know that your generous donations are making a real difference in these women’s lives, and the lives of their families.
If you or your company would like to help us continue to help women like Natalia, the easiest way is to attend or sponsor a Soroptimist fundraiser. Our next one is a Casino Night Fundraiser on Saturday, September 28, 2019 at the Vista Optimist Club. All proceeds will go to help more women like Natalia. For more information, see soroptimistvista.org or leave us a message at 760-683-9427 and we will get right back to you.
VISTA, California, April 21, 2019—Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland awarded $15,000 in scholarship grants to three local women at their annual “Live Your Dream” Awards gala held on March 23, 2019 at the Vista Optimist Club. About 130 people attended the $85 per plate event, which featured a reception with silent auction and cork pull, dinner and dessert. The event raised about $12,000 for the club’s Service Fund. Title sponsors were Tri City Medical Center, Modern Builders Supply, Runa the Realtor and California Real Estate Service. Dessert was donated by Sunrise Café of Vista.
Assembly member Tasha Boerner Horvath and Vista Mayor Judy Ritter were on hand to congratulate and present framed Proclamations to each woman. Vista councilman Joe Green was the guest speaker. He spoke about his own mother and her challenges as a single parent and lauded the Soroptimist’s mission of helping women get the education they need to support their families.
Each of the awardees spoke briefly about their struggles and aspirations. They asked not to be identified publicly for security concerns. Two of the women are attending Palomar College and one is a student at Cal State San Marcos. All are raising children alone after experiencing abusive and dysfunctional relationships and economic hardship. One is studying to become a registered nurse, another a lawyer, and the third, already a talented graphic designer, wants to be an e-commerce entrepreneur. After the presentations, the women were surprised by an additional and unexpected award of a laptop and printer for each of them.
The club thanked the employees of Datron World Communications for their generous donation and also the Vista Optimist Club, who not only supplied the venue but also the food, which received rave reviews. “Everyone loved the venue, the appetizers and drinks in the bar, and the delicious dinner options,” said club Treasurer Pat Origlieri. “We’ve already decided to have our September 28 Casino Night fundraiser at the Optimist Club too.” Despite the similarities in name, the Optimists and the Soroptimists are two completely distinct non-profit organizations. “It’s a win-win to have our fundraiser there because the Optimist Club also makes some money from the event, which they then donate to their causes” observed Gala co-chair Aleta Dirdo.
Table Sponsors were: Catspaw Design-Build, Inc., Tri City Realty, Boys & Girls Club of Vista, Attorney Assly Sayyar, Massage by Lani, Attorney Paul Campo, Free Builders Supply, Charlie and Carol Buel, Law Offices of Phyllis J. McGreevey and the Rotary Club of Vista
The 2019 Gala Committee members were Co-Chairs Paula Nix and Aleta Dirdo, Sherry Luz, Thoralinda Soyland, Lani Beltrano, Runa Gunnars, Assly Sayyar, Karen Del Bene, Ellen Clark, Nelly Jarrous, Marge Swacker, Catherine Manis, Cherie Wilson, Judy Gregorie and Jackie Piro Huyck.
Our next Collaborative meeting is Thursday, May 2nd at 9 am at our usual location: United Methodist Church, 490 South Melrose Drive, Vista, California (downstairs, in Fellowship Hall). Our guest speaker is Andrew Schmidt of Awaken Fair Trade.
Emily and Andrew Schmidt started Awaken with a vision that a business could create one of a kind products and change lives at the same time.
“We’ve always felt blessed to grow up in a country that supports freedom and has given us opportunities many would only dream of.We set off to find partners that were doing amazing work in challenging socioeconomic communities. Through a lead at a human trafficking presentation we heard about a Thai business that employs those coming out of prostitution and human trafficking in Thailand. We headed off to Bangkok to share our vision and hear theirs and have now been working together for over 5 years…
March 27, 2019, VISTA, California–Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland will host their annual Salad Bar Luncheon fundraiser at Grace Presbyterian Church in Vista at 1450 E. Vista Way on Thursday, April 11 from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Soroptimist members and local dignitaries and will don aprons and serve up a smorgasbord of salads and desserts prepared by Club members and local restaurants. In addition to the salads, the luncheon includes roll, baked potato with toppings and beverage, and a selection of desserts. “This is a great community gathering as well as being a fundraiser for our club,” said Soroptimist member Jackie Huyck. “All proceeds go to help women and girls through programs that lead to social and economic empowerment. Great food, a gift basket and money hat raffle, and our wonderful Vista firefighters will be there to help serve the salads,” she said.
Tickets are $15 in advance and $20 at the door. Tickets are available from any club member or online at soroptimistvista.org or by calling (760) 683-9427 or emailing firstname.lastname@example.org.
Soroptimist International of Vista & North County Inland is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, part of an international service organization of professional women who seek to improve the lives of women and girls both locally and internationally. The funds raised by the club are distributed to women and girls in need. The club meets every first and third Friday for lunch at locations in Vista.
NORTH SD COUNTRY HUMAN TRAFFICKING COLLABORATIVE March 7, 2019 WELCOME, INTRODUCTIONS, UPDATES, EVENTS
Notes by Allison Metzler, SI Vista and North County Inland
Next Meeting is May 2, 2019 Guest speaker TBD
Kaye called the meeting to order at 9:05 a.m. Several first-time visitors joined us. (note *’s by their names on the attendance list). • Andrew Schmidt from Fallbrook and his wife have launched program which assists trafficked survivors from Thailand. • Several members of United Methodist Church expressed interest in our work which correlates with their United Methodist Women’s mission outreach program to address human trafficking. • Mandy May-Fitzgerald, Registered Aroma Therapist, stated as a private citizen she wanted to learn more. (Later in the meeting she volunteered to join Friends of the Park, homeless outreach.) • Jackie Huyck, Soroptimist Int’l Vista and North County Inland invited all attendees to attend the SIVNCI Live Your Dream Awards Gala